Wednesday, April 24, 2019
To Aunt Mena, Michael, Crystal, Stephen, and Family,
It seems a little surreal to try to put into words what Uncle Barry meant to me. My mind goes back to the last time we visited. As we entered the door, we were welcomed by his big smile. He was glad to see us, and we were glad to see him. I’m glad my kids, got to meet their great uncle, and that is exactly who He was to them, and to me.
As usual, it wasn’t too long before he said, “Want a coffee?” Of course, I said “yes,” and after it was ready, we would sit and chat and laugh and talk about the Habs, and a whole bunch of other things, and just enjoy our time together. I never thought that visit, as we had done in times past, would be our last. I’ll miss our chats and laughter over coffee and will always cherish the memories I have of him.
I think I was around 14 years of age when he took sick and ended up moving to Corner Brook. He was 39 I believe, and to a 14-year-old, that seemed somewhat old. However, as I will turn 39 in a couple of months, I realize that he was just a young man, with a young family. I know it wasn’t easy. I know there were good days and bad days. But I have to say, and make sure that you know, Aunt Mena, there are not too many people that I admire, respect, and love, more than you. How you stood by Uncle Barry, supported him, loved him, and still managed to raise a family, and continue to work, is unbelievable. You taught me by example what commitment in a marriage looks like. I honour you, and thank you for who you are, and all that you have done for Uncle Barry.
Michael, Stephan, and Crystal, I know I don’t have to tell you this, but you had one awesome dad! We wish we could have been there today to support you through this difficult time, but due to circumstances out of my control, we are unable to make it. We have been praying for you all, and your mom of course, and asking God to strengthen you, comfort you, and allow His divine peace to surround you. There is a verse of Scripture, that has often been an encouragement to me, especially in challenging seasons of life. It comes from Psalms 46:1, and it was written by David, the King of Israel. He wrote, “God is our refuge and strength; an ever-present help in trouble.” In lieu of my absence, be encouraged in knowing that the presence of God is always with you, helping you when you need it, bearing your burdens, and strengthening you in times of weakness.
Also, the Apostle Paul, in writing to the Church at Philippi, was writing to reassure them of God’s peace as they would no doubt face challenges and hardships. Let his words to them reassure you of God’s presence and his peace. Philippians 4:6-7 (NCV) says, “6 Do not worry about anything, but pray and ask God for everything you need, always giving thanks. 7 And God’s peace, which is so great we cannot understand it, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” That is our prayer for you today. That you would sense peace that you can’t explain and walk in strength that comes from your Heavenly Father. We love you and we are praying for you today.
Robert & Lorelei Lodge,
St. John’s