Thursday, October 12, 2023
Words cannot express the feelings that I am feeling right now. Carol was like a second mother to me for most of my life. She was such a kind, loving and selfless person. She always had a smile on her face and was always so easy to talk to. I consider myself pretty lucky to have had her in my life.
I have so many memories that involve Carol. I would spend countless hours playing with Travis and Matthew growing up. I honestly don’t know how she put up with us, but she did. From the countless snacks (usually soup crackers with cheez whiz, freezies and pop), the epic birthday parties she threw, listening to all the hollering we used to do when we would be playing the playroom at their house (Travis and Matthew had THE BEST toys), from wiping away tears and always being there to comfort me when needed. She would also tell Mark off when he would torment Travis and I by calling us “Randy Travis”. This was back when the country singer was big!
Then we grew up and grew apart in distance, but never in our hearts.
I have two girls of my own who Carol loved instantly! She always made a point to get “something small” for them whenever we were in town (it was never “something small” haha) and having a visit, even if it meant trudging through a blizzard. She never missed an opportunity to see me and the girls.
When Mom got sick, Carol and Phil were always there to help anyway they could. They always kept an eye out for Mom. Carol would invite her over for tea to give Dad a break. Again, being the most wonderful and selfless person; putting another person’s needs before her own. It’s things like this that truly show you who your family is. You do not need to share the same blood to be family. You just need unconditional love, which Carol always provided.
Phil, Travis and Matthew – Please hold on to all of the wonderful memories that you have and cherish them forever. Although Carol is not here in person, she will always be with you in your hearts and her love will surround you for eternity.
Carol, thank you for loving me like a daughter and always being there for me. I will truly miss you but will hold on to every memory that I have.
Love Always,
Randi