Thursday, June 11, 2020
I met my "other Mother", Nina Hoddinott in 1963 when I was teaching at River Of Ponds. In 1967 I became an in-law member of the Hoddinott Familyand was immediately accepted as one of their own, and today I have many fond memories and experiences to show for them.
Being a part of this family meant you had to play cards. I did not mind that, because I liked a good game of cards myself. 500s was the popular game at that time. I learned to play well enough to play with them. Even though we lived in McIvers, we went to River Of Ponds on special occasions-Xmas, birthdays, summer vacations. When we arrived there was always a home cooked meal awaiting us. As soon as the meal was over and the table cleared, out came the cards. Also out came a "Nip" of whiskey to sip on as we played. The game often went until late night or early morning. Bidding sometimes became very intense and quite often we found ourselves so far in the hole you needed a tractor to get us out. No matter how late the game went, there had to be a cup of tea and a snack before going to bed. If you said No, she coaxed you until you said "Yes"..
Sunday Family Dinner was very special to her. No matter how late the Saturday Night Card game went, she was up bright and early Sunday Morning preparing Sunday Dinner Let me tell you she had it all-salt beef, puddings,vegetables, often turkey necks with all the trimmings. Desserts were there too; not Jam Jams or oreo cookies; but pies,cake, sugar buns, molasses buns or other baked goods.We never left River Of Ponds on a Sunday without having dinner. She loved to do this for her family or anyone else who happened to drop by. That's just who she was; always ready to share what she had.
That's just a couple of memories . There are many others- blue berry picking on Labor Day Weekend in the truck campers, a trip to the St. John's are camping one summer and many others..
We will lay her to rest tomorrow, but we will still have many wonder memories of her. Paramount will be her love for her family and her welcoming nature to all those who came to her home.